Pillow Talks is a weekly couples podcast hosted by sex therapist Vanessa Marin and relationship coach Xander Marin. Its 281 episodes cover sex tips, relationship advice and listener questions in a candid, humorous format. Episodes typically run about 55 minutes. Estimated downloads are roughly 20,000 to 50,000 per episode, with a rate of about $360 to $1,250 per host-read mid-roll.
Engaged couples audience hearing sex advice from a licensed sex therapist weekly
- 281 episodes with weekly releases and a five-year archive of sex and relationship advice
- Apple Podcasts rating of 4.8 from 2,676 ratings signals an engaged, loyal listener base
- Host-read mid-rolls fit naturally into conversational, advice-led episodes
Brand fit report
Content
- Formats
- co-hosted banter, interview, listener Q&A, solo monologue
- Tone
- candid, humorous
- Language
- English
- Production
- Clean, edited audio
- Typical length
- 45 to 65 minutes
Audience
Commercial
- Brands seen
- None yet
- Categories promoted
- None yet
- Affiliate links
- No
No sponsor mentions found in the feed; the website links to courses and a guide sold by the hosts.
Suitability GARM Brand Safety Floor + Suitability
Feed is flagged explicit and titles include sexual content such as E274 on orgasm and E279 on kink.
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Where to listen
| Platform | Link |
|---|---|
| Website | vmtherapy.com |
| Apple Podcasts | podcasts.apple.com/podcast/id1569466131 |
| RSS feed | feeds.megaphone.fm/QCD3576983375 |
Benchmark score: 100 / 100
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Recent episodes
| Episode | Date | Length |
|---|---|---|
| E282: Is This Normal? He Made AI Sex Videos of Us, and I Have Question | 2026-10-15 | 54 min |
| E281: Am I the Asshole? Kissing After Oral, Weight Gain, and Bad Sex | 2026-10-08 | 1 h 0 min |
| E280: The Initiation Mistakes You Don’t Even Realize You’re Making | 2026-10-01 | 47 min |
| E279: Ask a Sex Therapist: Kink Icks, Spicy Pics, and Vanilla Sex | 2026-09-24 | 1 h 2 min |
| E278: How to Get Out of a Relationship Rut: Your 4-Week Plan | 2026-09-17 | 52 min |
| E277: How to Take Your Orgasm to the Next Level with the Four Orgasm A | 2026-09-10 | 52 min |
Last six episodes from the show's feed, latest 4 days ago, a new one about every 7 days.
Meet Vanessa and Xander Marin, your new BFF couple friends! She’s a sex therapist with 20 years of experience and he’s a regular dude. Together they’re the shockingly open, slightly nerdy, and seriously funny couple you want to grab sushi with. They share the ups and downs in their relationship while giving you step-by-step techniques for improving yours. Subscribe for your weekly double date…
About Pillow Talks
Pillow Talks is a couples podcast hosted by sex therapist Vanessa Marin and relationship coach Xander Marin, according to the show feed and the vmtherapy.com website. Each weekly episode covers sex techniques, relationship advice and listener questions in a candid, humorous style, with a typical run time of about 55 minutes. The show has 281 episodes since May 2021.
Apple Podcasts lists the show with a 4.8 average from 2,676 ratings. Listeners are likely adults in long-term relationships, mostly in the United States; these audience figures are estimates. The feed shows no sponsors in its recent episodes.
Based on the estimated 20,000 to 50,000 downloads per episode, a host-read mid-roll would cost about $360 to $1,250 per episode. Brands in intimate wellness, couples products and relationship services are the best fit for this explicit, adult-oriented audience.
Written from the show's public RSS feed, its Podcast Index listing and episode titles. Numbers updated 2026-10-19. Pillow Talks can edit or remove this page at any time.
Questions about Pillow Talks
How much does Pillow Talks charge for a podcast sponsorship?
Estimated host-read mid-roll rates are about $360 to $1,250 per episode, based on an estimated 20,000 to 50,000 downloads per episode at $18 to $25 per thousand. Exact pricing should be confirmed with the show.
What is Pillow Talks about?
Pillow Talks is a weekly couples podcast from sex therapist Vanessa Marin and relationship coach Xander Marin. It covers sex tips, relationship advice and listener questions in a candid, humorous style.
How do I contact Pillow Talks about sponsoring an episode?
The show's contact email unlocks on Starbooked for $0.80. Boosted shows can be booked through Starbooked.
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